Jennifer Cook O'Toole


Jennifer Cook O'Toole is an American author and speaker. She is known for her six Asperkids books, which have been translated into six languages and include the winner of the Autism Society of America's Book of the Year Award. Her memoir Autism in Heels: The Untold Story of a Female Life on the Spectrum is a Wall Street Journal Bestseller, a "Best Book" title winner by Publishers Weekly, and named one of both the "Best Autism Books of All Time" and "Best-Selling Autism Books of All Time" by BookAuthority.
She was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome in 2011, just after all three of her children were diagnosed with the same condition. In 2019, she became the inaugural Senior Directorial Consultant for Jefferson University Hospitals Jefferson Health Center for Autism and Neurodiversity in Philadelphia, and was selected to address the United States' National Institutes of Health Interagency Autism Coordinating Committee regarding the unique issues surrounding women, girls, and autism. O'Toole advised the President's Council on Disabilities and President's Council on Sports, Fitness, and Nutrition at the White House in 2015, and had a voice in the creation of Julia, the first autistic character on Sesame Street.
She is a featured contributor in Dr. Tony Atwood's Top Aspie Mentors: Been There, Done That and Autism & Learning Differences, and wrote the forewords to Dragonfly: A Daughter's Emergence from Autism: A Practical Guide for Parents and Easy to Love, Hard to Live With. O'Toole sits on the Autism Society of America's Panel of People on the Spectrum, is a columnist/expert panelist for Amy Poehler's Smart Girls, Autism Asperger's Digest, Zoom Autism Magazine, AuKids Magazine, Special Magazine, and the Journal for the North American Montessori Teachers' Association NAMTA, and is a commentator on National Public Radio's WHYY and WFAE as well as Fox's WTXF-TV and NBC's Charlotte Today.

Background

O'Toole was born in Glen Ridge, New Jersey, and grew up in West Caldwell. She is the only child of Joseph and Jane Cook. Her father was an international commercial litigator. Her mother served as the only woman on their town council for 12 years.
O'Toole began dancing at age two, continuing through college. At seven, she became a member of Mensa. O'Toole attended Brown University, where she was a member of Kappa Alpha Theta. She majored in American Civilization, graduating with high honors in 1997. She was hired as a counselor in the Domestic Violence Unit of the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Department in Charlotte, NC. In this capacity, she trained officers, led student-focused presentations in colleges and high schools, and served as a victim advocate. In 1999, O'Toole began Master's work at the Graduate School of Social Work at Columbia University in New York City. After Columbia, she enrolled at the Graduate School of Education at Queens University of Charlotte, while teaching language arts at both the middle school and high school levels. In her first term, she garnered a student-initiated nomination for Disney's American Teacher of the Year Award.

Personal life

O'Toole and her family live near Charlotte, North Carolina. In addition to Asperger syndrome, she has synesthesia.

Asperkids series

  • Asperkids: An Insider's Guide to Loving, Understanding and Teaching Children with Asperger Syndrome

  • The Asperkids' Book of Social Rules: The Handbook of Not-So- Obvious Guidelines for Teens and Tweens

  • The Asperkid's Launch Pad: Home Design That Empowers Everyday Superheroes

  • The Asperkid's Not-Your-Average-Coloring Book

  • The Asperkid's Game Plan: Purposeful Play, Extraordinary Minds.... Ordinary Stuff

Other books

  • Sisterhood of the Spectrum: An Asperger Chick's Guide to Life

  • Autism in Heels: The Untold Story of a Female Life on the Spectrum

Contributions

  • Foreword for Dragonfly: A Daughter's Emergence from Autism: A Practical Guide for Parents by Lori Ashley Taylor

  • Foreword for Easy to Love but Hard to Live With: Real People, Invisible Disabilities, True Stories edited by Lisa Davis

  • Featured 'World's Top Aspie Mentors' contributor for Been There. Done That. Try This!: An Aspie's Guide to Life on Earth edited by Tony Attwood

  • Featured contributor for Autism and Learning Differences: An Active Learning, Teaching Toolkit by Michael P. MacMannon, with a foreword by Stephen Shore

Podcast

  • Speaking Geek: Translating Typical for the Human Spectrum

    Awards and honors

  • BookAuthority: 74 Best Autism Books of All Time
  • Publishers Weekly: Best Books List
  • Booklist Book of Distinction Starred Review by the American Library Association
  • 24 Amazing Feminist Books of 2018, Book Riot, 2018
  • Outstanding Literary Work of the Year, Autism Society of America, 2014
  • 50 Most Influential Women in North Carolina, 2014
  • 25 Most Amazing Autistic Women, Autistic Spectrum Digest, August 2014
  • Temple Grandin Award for Outstanding Global Contributions, Future Horizons
  • Women Inspiring Strength & Hope Award, Make-A-Wish
  • GRASP Excellence in Parenting/Distinguished Spectrumite
  • AuKids Speaker of the Year
  • Leading Woman, The Kappa Alpha Theta Leading Women Award
  • Disney's Babble: Top 30 Autism Spectrum Blogs 2013
  • Disney's Babble: Top 30 Autism Facebook Fan Pages 2013
  • Disney's Babble: Top 30 Autism Websites
  • Godiva's Woman of the Year, Nominee