Davies and his elder brother George first met the writer on their regular outings in Kensington Gardens with their nurse Mary Hodgson and infant brother Peter in 1897. They took part in play adventures with Barrie which provided much of the inspiration for the adventures in the 1904 stage playPeter Pan, or The Boy Who Wouldn't Grow Up. Shortly before writing the play, Barrie created a photo book titled The Boy Castaways, featuring the three oldest brothers pretending to be shipwrecked on an island and fighting pirates, themes that later appeared in the Peter Pan story. The character of John Darling, the older of Wendy's brothers, was named after him. In 1906 Davies was recommended by Barrie to Captain Robert F. Scott for a position at Osborne Naval College, unlike his brothers, who all attended Eton College. Following the deaths of his parents Arthur and Sylvia, Barrie became the main guardian of the five boys, supporting them financially. Jack reportedly harboured some resentment towards Barrie, at times believing the writer was trying to take his father's place. He was not as close to the writer as were his brothers, especially George and Michael.
Adulthood
Just before his mother's death, Davies became an officer in the Royal Navy, after attending the Royal Naval College at Osborne. As a regular naval officer he served in the North Atlantic during World War I. His brother George was killed in actionon the Western Front in 1915. His brother Michael drowned in an apparent accident in 1921. His brothers Peter and Nico outlived him. He married 19-year-old Geraldine "Gerrie" Gibb in 1917, without first asking permission of Barrie, who only grudgingly approved of the relationship. Nonetheless, Barrie gave the couple charge of the Davies family house, where Michael and Nico still lived during school holidays, in the care of Mary Hodgson. Friction between Gerrie and Hodgson led to the elder woman's resignation. Davies had two children: Timothy and Sylvia Jocelyn. John Davies was appointed to the naval rank of Lieutenant Commander in 1924. Upon retirement from the Royal Navy he and Geraldine moved to a cottage in St Endellion, Northern Cornwall. During the late 1940s his brother, the publisher Peter Davies, consulted with him regarding details of a family history informally titled "The Morgue". John Davies died on 17 September 1959 at the age of 65 from lung disease, almost seven months before his brother Peter committed suicide.