In Islam, iddah or iddat is the period a woman must observeafter the death of her husband or after a divorce, during which she may not marry another man. Its purpose is to remove any doubt as to the paternity of a child born after the divorce or death of the prior husband. The length of ‘iddah varies according to a number of circumstances. Generally, the ‘iddah of a woman divorced by her husband is three monthly periods, but if the marriage was not consummated there is no ‘iddah. For a woman whose husband has died, the ‘iddah is four lunar months and ten days after the death of her husband, whether or not the marriage was consummated. If a woman is pregnant when she is widowed or divorced, the ‘iddah lasts until she gives birth. Islamic scholars consider this directive to be a balance between mourning of husband's death and protecting the widow from criticism that she might be subjected to from remarrying too quickly after her husband’s death. This is also to ascertain whether a woman is pregnant or not, since four and a half months is half the length of a normal pregnancy.
The following is a summary of the main directives contained in these verses:
The waiting period of a widow is four months and ten days;
During this period, the woman is not to marry another man;
During this period, a person may declare his intentions of marrying the widow — in a socially acceptable manner — or he may keep such intentions to himself, yet he should not make a secret commitment of marriage with the widow; and
The time and place of the marriage-contract should be finalized and committed to only after the period of four months and ten days has expired.
These are the basic Sharia directives regarding the waiting period for a widow. It is also clear from another directive of the Quran that during this waiting period, the woman should not be turned out of her house.
Iddah for divorced females
Scriptural basis
The directive within the Quran, regarding the waiting period for a divorcee, is: In surah it is stated: In the Quran surah At-Talaq Verse 65:4, it is stated:
Main directives
The following is a summary of the main directives contained in these verses:
The waiting period for a menstruating woman is, three monthly periods
The waiting period for a non-menstruating women is, three lunar months
The husband is more entitled to take her back during this period provided that he wants reconciliation. However this is the case only in case of first or second divorce.
If a muslim man marries muslim woman then divorces her before touching her then there is no iddah.
Commentaries
Allah the Exalted clarifies the waiting period of the woman in menopause. And that is the one whose menstruation has stopped due to her older age. Her `Iddah is three months instead of the three monthly cycles for those who menstruate, which is based upon the Ayah in Al-Baqarah. The same for the young, who have not reached the years of menstruation. Their `Iddah is three months like those in menopause. Imam Suyuti's commentary, Tafsir al-Jalalayn: And as for those of your women who read allā’ī or allā’i in both instances no longer expect to menstruate if you have any doubts about their waiting period their prescribed waiting period shall be three months and also for those who have not yet menstruated because of their young age their period shall also be three months — both cases apply to other than those whose spouses have died; for these latter their period is prescribed in the verse they shall wait by themselves for four months and ten days.
Divorced women and widows who are pregnant cannot remarry until delivery. Remarriage cannot take place until a period of waiting removes all doubt about any existing pregnancy.
