Wyman was born in Aiken, South Carolina, the only son of Hastings "Wee" Wyman, Sr., and the former Elizabeth Babb. There are two Wyman daughters, the sisters of Hastings Wyman, Jr., Elizabeth W. Silk of New York City and Nancy W. Ray of Rock Hill, South Carolina. The senior Wyman owned Wyman Realty and served on the Aiken Zoning Board, the Aiken City Council, and as mayor pro-tem. He was a graduate of Presbyterian College in Clinton, South Carolina, and a member of First Presbyterian Church in Aiken, where he served as an elder and taught the Tewkesbury Sunday School class. He was formerly an elder at the Bethesda Presbyterian Church, when the Wymans lived in Camden, South Carolina. Wyman's grandfather, also named Hastings Wyman, was a medical doctor in Aiken who died some eight years before Wyman was born. Wyman's grandfather, both parents, and other family members are interred at Bethany Cemetery in Aiken. Wyman, Jr. attended public schools, first in Camden and then Aiken. In 1961, he received a Bachelor of Arts in American Government from Harvard College in Cambridge, Massachusetts, where he was a roommate of later U.S. Representative Barney Frank, a liberal Democrat who represented Massachusetts' 4th congressional district between 1981 and 2013. Frank engaged in debates with students who held more conservative views, including Wyman, who recalls, "He and I used to argue all the time. But it was not out of anger, it was out of an interest in the topics." When Wyman invited Frank to visit at Wyman's home in Aiken, Frank made a point of drinking from the since-abolished "colored-only" water fountain then available to African Americans. While at Harvard, Wyman confided to Frank that he is homosexual, not knowing that Frank then had the same inclination. In 1987, Frank became the first sitting member of the United States Congress to announce that he is gay; Wyman followed suit in the mid-1990s after several years of marriage and two children.
Political and journalism career
In 1964, Wyman earned his law degree from the University of South Carolina School of Law. Barney Frank at the time was marching in Freedom Summer in Mississippi. Wyman held his law license in South Carolina from August 27, 1964 until March 5, 1982, when he resigned from the bar. In 1965, at the age of 26, Wyman was elected chairman of the Republican Party in Aiken County, a group dominated by conservatives. In 1966, he was named southern states field representative for the Republican National Committee; this entailed travel throughout the region presenting campaign workshops. Late in 1967, Wyman became a staff aide to the Democrat-turned-Republican U.S. Senator Strom Thurmond, also a native of Aiken and the "father" of the modern Republican Party in South Carolina. Wyman remained with Thurmond until 1973 except for a six-month leave of absence in 1970 to manage the campaign for governor of Republican U.S. Representative Albert Watson of South Carolina's 2nd congressional district. Though he was Thurmond's choice for the governorship, Watson was defeated by the DemocratLieutenant Governor John C. West, a Camden native backed by South Carolina's other U.S. senator at the time, Ernest Hollings. Not a single major newspaper endorsed Watson. A consensus developed that racially moderate white voters who supported West's call to obey federal court orders relating to school desegregation carried with them the key to victory. In 1973, Wyman joined the staff as a special assistant to United States Secretary of Commerce Frederick B. Dent. From 1975 until 1998, Wyman worked in the public affairs department of the interest group, the American Petroleum Institute in Washington, D.C. In 2005, InsiderAdvantage, a multi-media company based in Atlanta, Georgia, purchased The Southern Political Report. Wyman has continued to write the newsletter and to contribute to the online version. Wyman has also written articles for The Washington Post, The American Spectator, The Wall Street Journal, the Capitol Hill newspaper Roll Call, and The New York Times. One of his recent New York Times articles, "An Inescapable History", explains why blue-collar workers in the South are more conservative politically than their counterparts in the remainder of the nation. Wyman has also offered political commentary on radio and television.
