Oldham was married to Emily Pierrepont Gould, of a very old and wealthy family. She was noted in the Social register of New York of 1914, amongst other years. She was the daughter of Mary Pierrepont Perry and James Henry Gould, and a direct descendant of James Pierpont, the founder of Yale University. Their society wedding was announced in the New York Tribune, which was set for January 14, 1915, to be celebrated by Bishop Greer at the Cathedral of St. John the Divine. At the time, Oldham was rector of St. Luke's Episcopal Church at Convent Ave. and W. 141st St. in New York City.
Work as bishop
Oldham was elected Bishop Coadjutor of Albany in 1922, to prepare for replacing Richard Henry Nelson. In 1924, Oldham made a major sermon, entitled "America First", at the Washington National Cathedral. However, it was not necessarily made in support of the controversial "America First" movement: His sermon on "The church's responsibility for world peace" was also widely published. He was a keynote speaker at the 1931 dedication of the War Memorial in Ithaca, New York, place of his alma mater, Cornell. Oldham was an organizer of a conference on Anglo-Catholicism in Albany. He was also active in ecumenism with the Roman Catholic Church, long before that became popular. He was installed in 1929 in the cathedra in the choir at the Cathedral of All Saints, as the 3rd Bishop of Albany. That would be a terribly unlucky year to begin any ministry, as the Great Depression was to start with the Stock Market Crash of 1929. Oldham wrote the Catechism Today: Instructions on the Church, the catechism used in the Episcopal Church for decades until 1979. He also wrote a book entitled "The Fighting Church." He was very active in Episcopal Church activities, from at least 1932. In 1937, he was a serious candidate for election as Presiding Bishop. By the end of the war in 1945, he was acknowledged as a church leader. In 1947, Bishop and Mrs. Oldham attended a conference in Sydney, Australia, and on their way home from New Zealand, the seaplane pilot, in order "to avoid disaster was to jettison cargo and passengers' luggage to lighten the load." Lost in "the Oldham luggage ... the cope the bishop had worn at his consecration...." In 1949, he received an honorary degree from Hobart College. The deanery of the Cathedral of All Saints is named Oldham House in his honor. He retired as bishop in 1950 and died in 1963. He was replaced by Bishop Frederick L. Barry, whose death he announced to a diocesan convention in 1960.
